Journal | Intimacy, Desire & Long-Term Relationships — Ferly

How to Rekindle Intimacy in a Long-Term Relationship

Billie Quinlan April 14, 2026
Tags: Desire, Intimacy, Responsive Desire

How to Get in the Mood for Sex When Desire Has Quietly Disappeared

Billie Quinlan April 13, 2026
Tags: Desire, Responsive Desire, Intimacy

Love But No Desire: What It Really Means (And What It Doesn't)

Billie Quinlan July 10, 2019
Tags: Desire, Intimacy, Responsive Desire

Meet Ferly's Co-Founders

Catherine Sarsfield June 6, 2019

Why Womxn Talking About Sex Is The Most Feminist Thing We Can Do

Catherine Sarsfield May 22, 2019

Why Pushing Past Body Shame Can Challenge Your Relationship To Sex

Catherine Sarsfield May 22, 2019

Why We Should All Be Advocating For Sexual Self-Care

Catherine Sarsfield May 20, 2019

Brits are 'having less sex', but is it a bad thing?

Catherine Sarsfield May 8, 2019

5 Tips To Get In The Mood (that don’t involve porn)

Catherine Sarsfield May 3, 2019

Is Mean Girls A Film About Empowerment?

Catherine Sarsfield May 2, 2019

Game of Thrones Shocker: Arya Stark Had Sex

Catherine Sarsfield April 29, 2019

'Great Sex' & Toxic Relationships

Catherine Sarsfield April 18, 2019

Musings Of A Sex Scientist

Ferly March 30, 2019

A Love Letter To My Orgasm

Catherine Sarsfield March 25, 2019

Am I Normal?

Billie Quinlan February 7, 2019

Feel like roommates? Or like sex has become effort?

That's exactly what I write about. One email, every week, with practical tools, real exercises, and a bit of the science behind why desire fades and how it comes back. No shame and no jargon.